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Card to celebrate friendship

Card to celebrate friendship

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Whilst our immediate family have the most formative influence on us in our first decade, friendships soon start to shape who we are, how we think and who we become. Those we meet during our formative years as teens or in early adulthood can often stay in our lives as a rich source of identity even if we don't see them very often. This poem was inspired and written for a friend's 40th birthday whom I had known since the age of 13. 

Anchor Friendships

"Friendships where time apart doesn’t matter;
whatever the circumstances, you know their
approach to life and you value their perspective.
Friendships that connect you to something
about you that might not be apparent in everyday life
- but is kept alive through that friend.
Friendships where you talk about things
other people would never mention.
Friendships that stay in your thoughts,
help you make decisions,

and give you cause to smile even when apart.
Friendships who, when you think of them,
or better still spend time with them,
help you stand more solidly on where you’ve come from,
and walk more lightly in who you are,
for you are anchored in that friendship."

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The Quiet Work of Love

The daily work of parenting can feel endless and invisible. Feeding, tidying, comforting, carrying the emotional weight of the household, then starting again the next day. Much of it goes unnoticed by the very children it is done for. Yet that does not make it unimportant. In many ways, being taken for granted is part of the role itself.

Children often don’t see the steady love beneath their feet. They notice when something is missing, but rarely the countless acts of care that make them feel safe, secure and able to grow. The ordinary routines of family life create a foundation of trust, even when parents feel exhausted or overlooked.

This reflection became the inspiration for a poem about the hidden strength of motherhood and the unseen work of love. It is a reminder that the small, repeated acts of care matter deeply. They shape confidence, belonging and resilience in ways that may only be understood much later. Sometimes the most powerful love is the kind that quietly holds everything up.

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